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A Devotional: Picking Up My Cross as a Husband and Dad

May 17, AD2017 0 Comments

If any want to become my followers, let them deny themselves and take up their cross daily and follow me.  (Luke 9:23)

The Gospels and the Church tell us to pick up our cross daily. This might seem an overwhelming task but it is not precisely because Jesus embraced His cross first before He ever asked us to copy Him.

Bearing a cross seems to be something negative at first but it always becomes a life-giving action.

For the average lay person, taking up our cross is not some grandiose, heroic action. It usually involves the boring grind of caring for family members.  We fall in love, get married, have a honeymoon and then responsibilities start piling up when we drag ourselves to a job every day, buy a house, pay mountains of bills and start having kids. When I felt overwhelmed by these family responsibilities, I could have chosen abortion or divorce, seeing family life as a crushing burden but God gave me the grace to basically grow up. 

Pick up Your Cross

Picking up our crosses daily is persevering through our own trials and errors. No one is perfect, but by humbling ourselves we can pick up our crosses daily just as Christ said:

“If any want to become my followers, let them deny themselves and take up their cross daily and follow me. (Luke 9:23).       

Picking up our cross is not such a difficult path when we give up our all joys and sorrows to Christ.  We simply look up to Jesus and just listen to Him as he said:

“For my yoke is easy, and my burden is light.” (Matt: 11:30).

We need to understand the yoke Christ was referring to was a two-headed harness which shared the weight and involved teamwork. We don’t have to throw in the towel because we are overwhelmed by our responsibilities; we simply accept the help Jesus gives us.

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About the Author:

Brandon Schild is currently in the U.S. Army stationed in South Korea. He is a Military Policeman and has been a Squad Leader, Desk Sergeant and U.S. Army Recruiter. He was stationed at Ft Myer, Virgina; Yongsan, Seoul, South Korea; Sand Springs, Oklahoma and Ft Riley, KS. He is working towards his Master’s Degree in Human Resources and has obtained a Bachelor’s Degree in Business Administration. He has been a Catholic his entire life but had fallen away from the Church. He came back to the Church and went through the RCIA program to become familiar with the faith once again. He also was chosen to help teach Confirmation classes on Ft Riley for two years up until he departed the area. He is married and has one son. When Brandon isn’t busy working or studying, he likes to spend time with his family and write stories for pleasure.

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