The Obedience of Mary vs. Eve’s Disobedience


maryMary truly is the Queen of heaven and earth. Her obedience shows us what true womanhood is. It is precisely through Mary’s surrender to God and her profound humility that we see how fierce and courageous she is. Mary placed all of her trust in God. She desired to only do God’s will, sacrificing her own will over and over again. She lived on this earth in continual preparation and hope for her eternal destiny. Mary set all pride, vainglory and sensual desires aside in order to fulfill our Heavenly Father’s mission. She was secure in her identity as a beloved daughter of a good Father and lived this identity to the fullest.

When we study the serpent’s interaction with Eve in Genesis 3:1-7, we discover she is the antithesis of Mary:

Now the snake was the most cunning of all the wild animals that the LORD God had made. He asked the woman, “Did God really say, ‘You shall not eat from any of the trees in the garden’? The woman answered the snake: “We may eat of the fruit of the trees in the garden; it is only about the fruit of the tree in the middle of the garden that God said, ‘You shall not eat it or even touch it, or else you will die.’” But the snake said to the woman: “You certainly will not die! God knows well that when you eat of it your eyes will be opened and you will be like gods, who know good and evil.” The woman saw that the tree was good for food and pleasing to the eyes, and the tree was desirable for gaining wisdom. So she took some of its fruit and ate it; and she also gave some to her husband, who was with her, and he ate it. Then the eyes of both of them were opened, and they knew that they were naked; so they sewed fig leaves together and made loincloths for themselves.

The first question which arises after reading this account is why Eve was speaking to the serpent at all? After all, the serpent was her enemy. The answer is perhaps because Eve didn’t recognize her enemy. She simply didn’t know he was her enemy. Additionally, we know the original sin is called the “Sin of Adam,” even though Eve ate the fruit from the tree first because when God told Adam not to eat of the tree, Eve wasn’t created yet. This information was given to Eve by Adam, not by God. Adam’s relationship with God was deeper and longer. He was her Guardian. What she did know was Adam told he God had commanded them not to eat the fruit from the tree. Listening to the serpent was gravely wrong because it meant she trusted the serpent over God but she listened to the serpent anyway. At this point in time, she didn’t have any idea of what evil was. She had never seen it. The serpent to her was just another of God’s creatures. At this moment in the Garden, he, like God, like Adam and Eve, they are all in the Garden together. Adam is the head of the human family so the sin is attributed to him, though it came through her first. It should have been enough for her to know not to disobey God at the word of her husband.

The Serpent is Cunning

The account also says the serpent was the most cunning of all of the animals. This means he was really convincing to her. A creature God created, who was cunning and wise, convinced her. And as for Adam, his desire for Eve seemed to outweigh his desire to obey God. He was the one who heard from God not to eat from that tree. Yet, he was there when she did, and he made a decision to go along with her. He must have desired her more than God. Both of them had the sin of disobedience. Her desire was to be like a god because she was convinced by the serpent. Adam’s desire to be with Eve more than God. The disobedience was grave and led them to experience evil for the first time. The punishment gets inflicted after the choice is made to disobey, and the worst punishment goes to the Serpent, which makes sense, He knew exactly what he was doing. His free will choice was to disobey, not serve and steal dominion from them.

The Serpent is Lucifer

We recognize the serpent in this story as being Lucifer, who was once the highest angel. He was created by God, though he did not have the beatific vision. St. Thomas Aquinas and Mary of Agreda tell us he was shown the incarnation coming through Mary. He didn’t want the hypostatic union to come through her, but through him and so he cultivated the disordered desires of envy and pride that were allowed because of his own free will, and acted on them. He probably wanted to show God how stupid the humans were and how weak and easily convinced they could be to give up their dominion, their authority, to him the serpent. He probably thought, then God would stop loving them, realize how weak they were, and not ask a human woman to carry the incarnation. He thought he was better and he was envious. Lucifer didn’t want to serve the humans as God asked. He was the first to give into disordered desire and he knew better.

God Still Loved Us

However, the serpent, Lucifer, was wrong. God didn’t stop loving us. Because even though Adam and Eve disobeyed and were punished for it, God was still right there in the midst of them. He even called out for them to return to Him when they ran and hid in their nakedness. Then we see God clothe Adam and Eve better than they could clothe themselves, and we know too, he provides a way back to full union with him, making covenants, that culminate with the sending of His Son. Even though we created a rift, God didn’t leave or abandoned mankind.

“The LORD God made for the man and his wife garments of skin, with which he clothed them.” Genesis 3:21

This is a God who loves us. God, who is wholly perfect, doesn’t really need anything from us, but he knows our obedience to him is good for us. He is constantly asking us to obey, not because he is an egoist who needs it from us, but precisely because when we obey, we flourish with life and our experience is of joy, not of evil and death. Their disobedience was grave and brought death into the world. Obedience is also an act of self-sacrificial love. When we obey God, we are in essence placing our full trust in Him, believing He knows what is best for us. We are also setting our own agenda and plans aside, sacrificing our own will in order to do God’s will. The obedience God calls us to is always open to our own free choice and always a call to imitate Christ by demonstrating self-sacrificial love.

After the fall, when God punishes both mankind and the serpent, we can see that the worst punishment was reserved for the serpent. This is because he knew what he was doing. Unlike Eve, who didn’t have full knowledge of what evil was, even though she knew what she not trusting God was gravely wrong. This gives a whole new meaning to, “Father forgive them, they know not what they do.” Luke 23:34

The serpent is given enmity between us and him as a punishment. The one who received hatred was not us, but him. Instead of God dismissing us like Lucifer would have hoped, God exacted upon Lucifer what Lucifer had wanted for mankind. (Genesis 3:15) Enmity is hatred. It is an active hatred. So in order for us to gain back our authority from the devil, we must actively hate sin. We must repent and confess when we do it, and hopefully feel revilement when we see it. It is a “holy hatred” that we are to experience. A holy hatred of all that is sinful, all that is cultivated and now embodied in the spirit of Lucifer.


Lucifer was handed over to his disordered desires and as a result, poisoned his eternal union with God. Because of free will, God allowed it. Lucifer is pure spirit, he cannot revoke this choice to deny God, just as once we die and are in the spiritual realm, we cannot revoke our choice to deny or accept God. At our particular judgment, God exacts the judgment, but we choose, based on our actions in life, where we want to spend eternity. While we are living, we have the opportunity to heal the rift between us and God by turning back to Him in obedience. In order for us to do this, God sent us His Son, through whom we can receive the grace to actively fight sin. Our battle in this life is a continual battle to regain our dominion. To not listen to the father or lies, and gain back the authority God had given to us. Because God wants us to achieve this, he came to earth in the incarnation. He came to destroy the works of the devil. (1 John 3:8)

The Difference Between Mary and Eve

The incarnation came through a human woman. Mary’s original sin was withheld, before her conception by God, she was in the exact same position as Eve was before the temptation. Yet there was one difference; Eve had no experience of original sin when she was tempted. The serpent was cunning and convinced her to give up her domain, her authority, and disobey God. Eve didn’t know evil or sin. She had not yet experienced the consequence of sin, neither her own sin nor the sin of others. This is precisely why Mary’s fiat is so amazing.

Mary and Eve had the same choice, obey God or not, but unlike Eve, Mary obeyed God despite the known consequences. Even under threat of death by stoning, Mary chose to obey. Eve, on the other hand, would have known nothing of death because it didn’t yet exist. It should have been easier for Eve to trust God, and this is why what she did was so gravely wrong. She let desire overcome trust when she had no reason not to trust. Mary, seeing the effects of sin, could not have trusted, but she trusted unequivocally.

Mary is the archetype of true womanhood. As the sinless woman, Mary understands exactly where all authority comes from, and thus she remains the Queen of her Dominion. Because of her perfect obedience to the Father, she now holds the highest place in heaven, something that had once been Lucifer’s. No wonder he hates her.

Our Culture Today

In our culture today, we are being force fed a very different image of what it means to be a woman. Not only are the lines being blurred between manhood and womanhood, but women and girls alike, are being sold a lie. Our society tells women to act like Eve, give into your disordered desire and you will have the power of a god in this world. For women and men are the same and should thus act, look and have the same duties and purpose in life. Not only does our anatomy tell us otherwise, but our innate strengths and weaknesses also clue us into this fact. Unfortunately, in our human nature, we are prone to compare each other based on the standards of this world instead of based on our eternal destiny.

Our Choice

We can make a different choice. Through the grace of the Sacraments, we can hand ourselves to God. We can trust God. Jesus came to give us this grace. We can look at Mary, and ask for the grace to be like her, and we can flourish. When desire gives way to obedience to God, life becomes a joy and a flourishing, unlike anything you have ever seen.

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5 thoughts on “The Obedience of Mary vs. Eve’s Disobedience”

  1. We have evidence that our holy Mother existed with the writings of St. Paul. We have a great deal less when it comes to the Exodus and Eve. The story of Adam and Eve is more of a mythical reading for those who cannot find solace in the Garden and what took place there. I, for one, have a difficult that a loving God would condemn all of humanity with “original sin” based on the disobedience of just two people . That God is punishing God. Some deity that I don’t know.

    1. I don’t see it that way, especially in light of the rest of the story. The serpent was the one who was punished first and the severly. God put enmity between the woman, her offspring and Satan. We should be hating Satan, but we don’t, we hate each other or God instead. I think Satan thought he would show God how stupid we are when he stole our domain and God would hate us. But instead we see God put animal skin to clothe us. The first time he sacrifices one of His creatures to bring us back to Him, and it happens in Genesis. And of course then the ultimate sacrifice of his Son. Original sin makes total sense to me because we are a Mystical Body and we are all connected. When we sin it affects not only us, but the entire Mystical Body. We do not live in a vacuum on our own. The things we do affects others, especially the things our parents do to us. That is how we are shaped and formed. When our first parents chose to give their authority to Satan what they were doing was opening the door for the rest of us to be stained by that original sin which culminates in our concupiscence. God does not interfere with free will. If he did it wouldn’t be true love. I know that my actions definitely affect my children, so it has more to do with us and our free will. God is a loving and merciful God who wants us in union with His will. We gave that union away when we gave our domain to Satan. The whole story of Salvation History is about getting back to union with God’s will, and we must freely consent to it. When you see someone that does give their will over to God, their whole family is blessed for generations. This is because we’re all connected. Until we get that and stop operating all on our own we are missing the entire point. Loving God and walking in union with His will unites you to other people and causes you to love like Him, unconditionally. It isn’t a punishing diety, it’s a Good Father who knows the bigger picture of our relationship to one another.

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  3. Mary’s “yes” demonstrates the link between truth and authentic freedom. In our culture today, it appears that pursuits of worldly desires have made people more restless, more divided, and more angry than ever. This article is a great reminder that by instead putting God’s will before our own, we can, in contrast to the world, discover that God’s “yoke is easy, and his burden is light.”

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